In loving memory
Matt
A son, a friend, a light in the world.
Matt was a happy baby, a delightful toddler, and a caring young man. Inquisitive and bright, he loved games and music. He played guitar and piano, and was a talented computer programmer. As an adult, he taught English in Japan, did an archeology dig in Greece, wind-surfed off the coast of British Columbia, and travelled to Finland to discover his paternal roots.
Who he was
Matt was the kind of person who noticed things — the friend who was quiet but always there, the one who remembered the small details that made you feel known. He had a gentle humor and a deep sensitivity. He loved deeply, even when it was hard. He was curious about the world, kind to strangers, and fiercely loyal to the people he loved.
What he loved
He found joy in simple things — music that moved him, time spent outdoors, the kind of conversations that go on too long and feel too short. He had passions that were entirely his own, and a way of sharing them that made you want to love them too. He was creative, thoughtful, and full of a quiet wonder that the world didn't always see.
His legacy
His family had no idea he was struggling. His parents and two sisters talked to him often and he had jogged several miles that day, played video games with friends, and discussed a novel he was reading with a friend. Whatever happened that day, has left the world a little quieter. Matt's big laugh echoes through the memories he left behind. If you are struggling, know that YOU MATTER.
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